I have experienced a number of loves in my life, all of them ultimately unconsummated! The earlier experiences were all very innocent; as indeed were all the later ones, save those with Pat.

0068 Phyllis & Lillian, 1953 – the twins of my dreams
0095 Pat & Margaret – my teenage loves
0001 Italian Tour – and Marie from Bolton
0098 Birkenhead High School girls
0067 Butlins
0074 - Norman Killey’s sister – brief but more sexually charged

All of that changed when I met my wife to be.

 0121 Spain  (0121T*) – where I met Pat.

Although – for various reasons – the voracious level of my sexual appetite did not last, I suppose we were then well in the vanguard of the sexual revolution.

0119 Pat at Imperial College (0119T*)
0124 Sex and Single Man

Although my married life had its problems, and I was attracted to other women, I never seriously jeopardized it.

9114  Girls - in general
9174 Secretaries
9187 Affairs - or, in practice, not!
9048  Farewell to - a romantic (semi-fictional) view

Indeed, the worst challenge to it ultimately came from Pat herself:

9137 Me & Pat - Divorce or (Perhaps) Not?

Though this was in part prompted by my gender identity dilemma:

0230 Sexuality and Gender

I was, even so, one of the promoters (indeed arguably the initiator) of the ‘woman’s century’.

9238 PR1 – Futures Observatory Press Cuttings

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